Tuesday, July 11, 2006
UGHHHHHHHHHHHH
Ok seriously folks real in person friendships with women and me.... not something that happens much. I just can't understand how complicated most women make things.
I was on the phone with DS (who is at the ex's) Dh takes the phone to talk to him all is great I then get back on the phone with DS and say my goodbyes and Love yous. DH told me the ex's wife cut off DS from telling a story he told me and wanted to tell Dad too. Hmm odd so I in an attempt to open the lines of communication, call back and ask the ex's wife hey DS was telling my DH a story he told me and you made him stop. What happened? HONEST TO GOD not aaccusatory or mean very casual and honestly I just wanted to know what was going on.
This opened lines of communication all right. Saying how I tell my son not to tell them anything (not true) and a 15 minute accusing me of everything under the sun when I am repeatedly saying "I am not mad honest no all I wanted to know was... no that isn't It no I ......" Yeah then I get the whole "Is that it? Well have a nice day " click
WTF?!?!?!?!?!?!
I just called to ask what happened (maybe I missed something) I get an earful about things I couldn't give a rip about. That woman has serious issues with me! I can assure her I do NOT want her "man" I can assure her I am also not the 19 y/o she seems to think I still am. Ugh Back the hell off -put your pride or issues or whatever the hell on the flippin back burner and MOVE THE HELL ON. She knows she got involved with a man with a child and I am that childs mother and she either has to deal with me or bite her tounge especialy around my child. You will NEVER hear me saying that stuff around DS.
UGH. Here I am the Mom trying to be civil with the step mom and see what I get??? And people wonder why that rarely happens HAHAHA
I was on the phone with DS (who is at the ex's) Dh takes the phone to talk to him all is great I then get back on the phone with DS and say my goodbyes and Love yous. DH told me the ex's wife cut off DS from telling a story he told me and wanted to tell Dad too. Hmm odd so I in an attempt to open the lines of communication, call back and ask the ex's wife hey DS was telling my DH a story he told me and you made him stop. What happened? HONEST TO GOD not aaccusatory or mean very casual and honestly I just wanted to know what was going on.
This opened lines of communication all right. Saying how I tell my son not to tell them anything (not true) and a 15 minute accusing me of everything under the sun when I am repeatedly saying "I am not mad honest no all I wanted to know was... no that isn't It no I ......" Yeah then I get the whole "Is that it? Well have a nice day " click
WTF?!?!?!?!?!?!
I just called to ask what happened (maybe I missed something) I get an earful about things I couldn't give a rip about. That woman has serious issues with me! I can assure her I do NOT want her "man" I can assure her I am also not the 19 y/o she seems to think I still am. Ugh Back the hell off -put your pride or issues or whatever the hell on the flippin back burner and MOVE THE HELL ON. She knows she got involved with a man with a child and I am that childs mother and she either has to deal with me or bite her tounge especialy around my child. You will NEVER hear me saying that stuff around DS.
UGH. Here I am the Mom trying to be civil with the step mom and see what I get??? And people wonder why that rarely happens HAHAHA
